THE BEST FRIEND SAGA
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Having a best friend or best friends is cool, you get to go out together, gist together, discuss intimate stuff, make jest of stuff together, and so on. I asked a few questions around about the “Best friend Tag” , I wanted to hear from other people too.
It’s really amazing how you meet someone, especially when we were younger. You have a lot in common, you just click and start talking a lot, you share secrets with each other, you feel you are close enough to call each other best friends.
This is all fun until you meet someone new you feel the same about, probably because you get to spend a lot of time at work, school, or anywhere. You start sharing memes with each other, laugh at inside jokes, make plans for the weekend, and then you feel you are cheating on your best friend because you are having the kind of fun you have with them with other people.
At this point, are you supposed to reduce the fun with the new person? Or you drop your old best friends for the new ones? Or you introduce them to each other? Because of this, most of us have lost precious relationships, both old and new ones.
The truth is we are always growing and we will always continue to grow at all points of our lives, and the level and area of our growth will most likely determine the kind of people we will be really close to at a particular time. It’s advisable to keep your old friends, but you should give room for new friends too.
Here are a few people’s thoughts about the best friend tag.
It’s kind of stressful placing the tag on a particular person and calling the person your best friend. I have some really close friends, it’s not like I don’t fancy the best friend thing tho. I used to have a best friend then, we went our separate ways because of admission, we maintained the relationship for about a year or two, we drifted apart. We still talk, but she has other friends now that know a lot of things about her I don’t know and there are some things about me she doesn’t know too. I don’t think there is any need to call someone your best friend when you will still meet people you can possibly get to.
I don’t have a particular best friend because I have people I’m really close to. They ask me for advice and I do too. You know how we guys are, we don’t really do these kinds of stuff.
I am best friend to somebody and someone else is my best friend. It’s just that everyone wants to belong to a certain clique, so when you hangout with new people for a short while, you start calling each other best friends
I have a lot of close amazing friends and I’m not ready to lose any of them because they complete me in different ways. I have different things I share with them, because I know their strengths and weaknesses. I know whose advice should be taken at a particular point in time.
I will appreciate what you think about it, and if you have ex-best friends, or you still have your best friend since forever. Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe
Cheers to the weekend.