This post is not for trying to win a girl’s heart, it is for those trying to win their girls over and over again. It’s actually easier to get a girl to like you, than to get a girl to continue liking you, especially with the same intensity at which she started liking you. The easiest part of a relationship is the first six months to one year, everything will be easy and almost smooth, because of the sparks and the “initial gragra”.
Guys tend to get used to their babes being around, especially when they really love them. They expect their babes to know they love them, but they forget how much they were forming less busy when they were asking them out. I’ll love to mention a few things to make your girl love you with the same intensity you started with, and even more. You know most of these things before, maybe you just forgot how to do them.
There are too many messaging apps. You can send and receive messages on almost all social media apps, people forget there’s a real messaging app. Just send a random text to your babe via this app, I’m sure she’ll read it more than three times.
The message don’t have to be something serious, you can just send something like this.
” Babe, I hope you know you are really amazing, and that you mean a lot to me. Have a nice day, I love you”
Something as simple as that will do the trick. You don’t have to wait for a fight to happen to always text your babe, make the texts random. Text her now!
—BE CONCERNED ABOUT HER PHYSICAL APPEARANCE
It’s really cute when you send a hairstyle picture to your babe, telling her you think it would suit her and she should try it. That act speaks volume, it means you had her in mind and you care about what she looks like.
Some of you can’t even remember her shoe size, her favourite color, or the kind of clothes she likes. You just expect her to always look good, without contributing to it. This time, it isn’t about money, it is calling your babe to put on that beautiful black heels of hers because her legs look good with it. She will be impressed you even noticed her black heels.
—TELL HER ABOUT WORK
You don’t have to tell her everything, but let her be involved. Don’t just tell her you had a busy day and you are tired, tell her what got you busy. You need not to assume she wouldn’t understand, it feels good to know your man thinks you are smart enough to discuss work with you.
Mention names of your colleagues too, she doesn’t necessarily have to meet them, it makes the conversation less abstract and more real. Try to talk to her today.
—BE AN ACTIVE PART OF HER CAREER/BUSINESS
The same way you should talk to her about work, is the same way you should let her talk to you about work. Even when she doesn’t want to talk, pressure her a little to talk to you. Ask her about her plans, if she is in line with what she really wants, and if she needs assistance.
Correct her if need be, and if you feel she is wasting her time on something, let her know. Be her greatest supporter and cheerleader, and make sure you are supporting her in actions.
I’m sure there are a lot more, please drop more points in the comment section. Don’t forget to share the post, let’s make sure the guys get to read it.